
God our Father and Jesus Christ his Son love all people, including gay people. Being gay is not an obstacle to God’s love and acceptance.
Being gay is not a sin.
Sins are wrongful thoughts, words or actions.
Being gay is not a thought, word or action.
Being gay is not evil.
We were all made through Jesus Christ, for “all things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made.” John 1:3 Nothing sinful or evil comes from or through Jesus.
Being gay is not a decision or a choice.
We cannot change being gay and nobody can change that for us; like the colour of our eyes it’s part of who we are and that’s OK, because that’s the way God made us.
Being a Christian and being gay is not contrary to the Christian faith, the Bible or the teaching of Jesus Christ. This website explains why.
“Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes
has eternal life.”
John 6:47

Love
God loves every human being, including gay people, because he made us and sacrificed his only Son to save everyone who believes in him.
Human society through the ages has always imposed its ‘standards’ of acceptance based on outward or superficial qualities, like beauty, wealth, nationality and status. But God’s acceptance is based on the way someone thinks or behaves because of what they believe, “for he knows the secrets of the heart.” Psalms 44:21b
Love and acceptance doesn’t come from judging by appearances, because it doesn’t matter to God what someone looks like, how much wealth they have, what nation they are from, or what their sexual orientation is. It’s what you sincerely believe that matters.
Love will change your life:
in believing God loves you, in loving him, and in loving other people.
True Christian love for all people, through acceptance, forgiveness, compassion, tolerance, kindness, generosity and truly caring for them, will lead to happiness, joy and peace, in their life and yours.
The ultimate love is that God the Father sacrificed his only Son Jesus Christ for everyone, to reconcile us to the Father and redeem us for him and his Son.
Being gay cannot exclude anyone from God’s amazing and all-inclusive love.
“Worthy are you, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they existed and were created.” Revelation 4:11
“Know that the LORD, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.” Psalms 100:3
“The earth is the LORD’s and all that fills it, the world and those who dwell therein.” Psalms 24:1
“For us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.” 1 Corinthians 8:6
Hide info“For this is how God loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16
“The LORD is good to all, and his mercy is over all that he has made.” Psalms 145:9
“For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.” Matthew 5:45b
God “shows no partiality to princes, nor regards the rich more than the poor, for they are all the work of his hands.” Job 34:19
“In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.” 1 John 4:10
Hide infoGod “desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.” 1 Timothy 2:4
“The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” 2 Peter 3:9
Jesus said: “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28
Jesus also said: “whoever comes to me I will never cast out.” John 6:37b
“So Peter opened his mouth and said: ‘Truly I understand that God shows no partiality, but in every nation anyone who fears him and does what is right is acceptable to him.’” Acts 10:34-35
“Whoever thus serves Christ is acceptable to God.” Romans 14:18a
Hide info“We love because he first loved us.” 1 John 4:19
“Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” 1 John 4:11
Jesus said: “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” John 13:34
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32
“I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” Matthew 5:44
“Let all that you do be done in love.” 1 Corinthians 16:14
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Definitions
Some people wrongly think or assume that the definition of ‘gay’ includes or implies the act of sodomy. That is not true. They are confusing sexual orientation with sexual activity.
Being gay is part of who we are. It’s an attribute like eye colour or skin colour, it’s something we are born with, it’s not something we do.
The following definitions are provided in the hope they will help everyone understand the true meaning of these words.
Sexual orientation has nothing to do with sexual acts.
It is a term that refers to attraction and gender, where the attraction might be toward the opposite gender, the same gender, all genders or no gender.
Sexual orientation is not a choice or decision.
Further reading:
Dictionary definition
Wikipedia reference
In modern usage, the word gay means having a romantic or sexual attraction exclusively to people of the same gender as oneself.
Further reading:
Dictionary definition
Wikipedia reference
Sodomy means anal penetration as a form of sexual intercourse, also known as ‘anal sex’.
A sodomite is anyone who participates in anal sex, regardless of their sexual orientation.
Usually sodomy refers to anal sex between two men, but generally it can mean anal sex between any two people regardless of gender.
Sodomy is a physical sexual activity or practice, it is not the same as a sexual attraction.
Sodomy is a choice; being gay is not a choice.
Further reading:
Dictionary definition
Wikipedia reference
Sin means a thought, word or action as a transgression, fault, offence or omission regarding divine law or a commandment of God.
Further reading:
Dictionary definition
Wikipedia reference
Sin, as described in the Bible, is an action or behaviour. It’s never about who a person is, but is always about what people do or how they behave, including what they think or say.
The apostle John writes “Everyone who makes a practice of sinning also practices lawlessness; sin is lawlessness.” 1 John 3:4
And “All wrongdoing is sin” 1 John 5:17a
James writes “whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.” James 4:17
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Word
God’s Word, the Bible, does not say being gay is wrong or sinful.
Biblical quotations throughout this website show beyond doubt that God loves everyone. The Bible does not say ‘everyone except gay people’.
Some behaviour, expressed as thoughts, words or actions, is sinful, but being gay is not a thought, word or action, it is a state of being or existence.
Being gay is not a sin.
Being gay is not a transgression of divine law.
Being gay is not a fault or offence.
There are some Bible verses where it does say the act of sodomy is sinful. This has often resulted in God’s Word being incorrectly used to vilify all gay people. You can be gay and not be a sodomite, you can be a sodomite and not be gay. They are two completely separate and different things.
Being gay is not the same as the act of sodomy.
Sexual orientation is not a choice, but sexual activity is a choice.
This section is about God’s Word, the Holy Bible. It includes some general information, including why the Bible is important, and also specifically examines the sodomy related verses to show they are not about being gay.
This section contains a lot of information for those who want to know more.
Firstly, the importance of the Bible as the authoritative Word of God is discussed. Then the author’s personal thoughts and opinions on the sodomy verses in the Bible are offered, as well as some further thoughts regarding other sexual activity.
The reader is encouraged to study the scripture passages in this section, and in the entire website, for yourself, and pray for understanding from the Lord and his Holy Spirit.
In addition to the sodomy verses, there are other Bible verses that some religious authors say are guiding principles denying that people can be gay, for example ‘God created us male and female’, therefore everyone should be heterosexual. But that is an interpretation made by people who have no understanding that being gay is not a choice.
Should gay people be excluded from God’s love and salvation because of the way he made us? Would God create a group of people that could never be part of his kingdom? Of course not! That is an offensive and irrational concept with no basis in scripture at all.
Prejudiced, anti-gay religious commentators are similar to the religious rulers described in the Gospels, whose self-serving views were refuted by Jesus since they were not based on love or a true understanding of God’s Word, but are based on human tradition and heterosexism.
The apostle Paul writes: “See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ.” Colossians 2:8
All people, including gay people, are created by God through Jesus Christ. Nothing coming from or through Jesus can be inherently sinful or evil.
God the Father is totally and utterly holy. It is his will that all people be holy too, “since it is written, ‘You shall be holy, for I am holy.’” 1 Peter 1:16
He gave us his Word, the Bible, in part to explain how we are to live and what it means to be holy.
We all fall short of God’s high standard (except for Jesus), but Christians are called to try to be holy, not as a requirement of law or adherence to rules, but because our love for God inclines our hearts to please him.
The contents of the Holy Bible, also known as the “Word of God” or “Scripture”, are expressed through divine revelation to specifically chosen writers (eye witnesses, apostles, disciples, prophets, chroniclers, etc) inspired by the Holy Spirit. That is why it’s called the Word of God, and as such carries with it the absolute authority and infallibility of God.
“For no prophecy was ever produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.” 2 Peter 1:21
“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness,” 2 Timothy 3:16
The Word of God is not just a collection of books written long ago in ancient languages – the Old Testament was written mostly in ancient Hebrew, with some Aramaic, and the New Testament was written in ancient Greek; both have been translated into hundreds of modern languages – it is the eternal, infallible and immutable blueprint of all creation (the physical universe, past, present and future) containing divinely inspired words for our benefit.
For “[Jesus] is the radiance of the glory of God and the exact imprint of his nature, and he upholds the universe by the word of his power.” Hebrews 1:3a
“The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.” Isaiah 40:8
Jesus said: “Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will not pass away.” Mark 13:31
Jesus also said: “Scripture cannot be broken.” John 10:35b
“For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven and do not return there but water the earth, making it bring forth and sprout, giving seed to the sower and bread to the eater, so shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and shall succeed in the thing for which I sent it.” Isaiah 55:10-11
“The law of the LORD is perfect, reviving the soul; the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple; the precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes; the fear of the LORD is clean, enduring forever; the rules of the LORD are true, and righteous altogether. More to be desired are they than gold, even much fine gold; sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb. Moreover, by them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward.” Psalms 19:7-11
These words are as true and effective today as when they were written, and are applicable to every part of our lives in this world. Reading the Bible everyday is essential in every way for a Christian; it is nourishment for your soul.
Theology is a deep and detailed area of study, and not the purpose of this website. For those who are interested in learning more, there are a great many books, archaic and modern, dedicated to this fascinating and enlightening subject. For example, personally I found ‘In Understanding Be Men’ by T.C. Hammond, to be a good place to start.
Regarding context:
Some say using individual verses or parts of verses from the Bible to prove a point is taking those words out of the context in which they are written, and therefore is not valid.
If this argument is to be accepted, then all of the apostle Paul’s letters, which are written to specific audiences, would be out of context for us today, since we are not those to whom they are addressed. Also most of the Old Testament would be out of context for those who are not Jewish, since the Old Testament is mainly concerned with God’s interaction with the Israelites. On the contrary, it is very clear that the whole of the Bible is beneficial to everyone.
Context is important sometimes, but the objection regarding using individual sentences or phrases from the Bible out of context is clearly a mundane argument, which wrongly places a human limitation on the divine Word of God.
Jesus and his apostles quote the Hebrew scriptures (the Old Testament) out of context numerous times to support what they are saying or to confirm a prophetic outcome, because they know the power, truth and infallibility of the Word of God. Following their example is completely justified.
It also should be noted, the chapter and verse numbers in our modern Bibles were added for ease of reference centuries after the original texts were written, so quoting sentences and phrases not aligned with verse numbers is not an issue. See this Wikipedia page for more info if you’re interested.
Click on the references above to read the verses for yourself.
The Genesis and Judges passages are strikingly similar in the actions they describe, carried out by men of two different Gentile (non-Israelite) towns, at two different times in history. One of those towns was named Sodom, from which the word ‘sodomy’ is derived.
These are descriptions of evil, godless people, and are examples provided in the Bible for our sake, to contrast the difference between people who go their own way and people who conform to behaviour that is acceptable to the God who created us all.
In the language of the times to ‘know’ someone in this way was to have penetrative sex with them; in this case anal sex.
It is demographically impossible that the entire male populations of the towns in these passages were gay. The percentage would be the same as for all populations, typically a relatively small number, around 10%.
So these passages are not about being gay; they are not even about sex. The threatened sodomy of the male visitors was to humiliate and dominate them (similar to rape carried out by heterosexual men in prisons). These passages are about godless, evil people intending sodomy as a means of injury, abuse, domination and control.
It boggles our modern minds as to why in both cases women would be offered to the wicked men; perhaps to prevent sodomy occurring, or perhaps because there was such little regard for women in those ancient days, but more likely due to the tremendous fear of being overrun by the aggressive mob of godless men intent on doing great evil.
When referring to Sodom and Gomorrah, Jude Jude 7 mentions sexual immorality and pursuing ‘unnatural desire’ (ESV) with a footnote offering the alternate translation ‘different’. The Greek word translated ‘unnatural’ is ἕτερος heteros; [meaning] of uncertain affinity; (an-, the) other or different. Other translations render it ‘unnatural lust’ (RSV) or ‘perversion’ (NIV) or ‘strange flesh’ (KJV) or ‘other flesh’ (YLT).
So there is some ambiguity, however it seems likely that Jude is referring to the desire to participate in sodomy, but could be referring to a desire to do other than good, in this case to abuse, dominate and humiliate; basically the opposite of the love that Jesus said we all should practice toward one another.
Click on the references above to read the verses for yourself.
In both of these verses God is speaking with Moses, specifically communicating his views regarding sodomy.
In the language of the times, the expression to ‘lie with’ someone is to have sex with them, specifically penetrative sex, here referring to the act of sodomy, i.e. a man engaging in anal sexual intercourse with another man.
The most important point to note regarding these two verses is that they are not about being gay, they are concerned with a sexual act between men no matter who they are, gay or otherwise.
The second point to note about these two verses is that God says sodomy is an “abomination”. This is a word translated from the Hebrew תּוֹעֵבָה tô‘êḇâ; (used in Leviticus) or תֹּעֵבָה tonebah; (used elsewhere in the Old Testament) meaning something disgusting (morally), i.e. (as noun) an abhorrence. The Hebrew primitive is תָּעַב ṯâ‘aḇ; meaning to loathe, i.e. (morally) detest.
In the book of Leviticus this word “abomination” only appears in these two verses, however it is also used in many other places throughout the Old Testament but not in reference to sodomy.
Being gay is neither moral nor immoral, it’s a state of being, so neither of these verses refer to being gay. But they are straight forward and clear, that God regards the act of sodomy as sexually immoral and therefore sinful; there are no caveats, loopholes nor any scope for variation.
The death penalty in verse 20:13 seems harsh, but is consistent with the New Testament word written by the apostle Paul, who goes on to point out all humans have a saviour from that same penalty: “for the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 6:23 However, “if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins.” Hebrews 10:26
These Leviticus verses are written for our benefit. How else are we to know the thoughts of God? Many people dismiss the Old Testament Law as not relevant today, however Jesus said “it is easier for heaven and earth to pass away than for one dot of the Law to become void.” Luke 16:17
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These verses at the end of the first chapter of Romans contain powerful words. However, they are not about sexual orientation, but rather are about all humans wanting something in this world more than God; desiring earthly things more than heavenly things, about everyone pleasing themselves rather than wanting, having a longing, to love and please God.
In verse 26 and 27 specifically, it is clear Paul is writing about sexual acts: i.e. having ‘relations’, ‘committing shameless acts’ and being ‘consumed with passion’, also rendered ‘inflamed with lust’ in other translations.
Verse 26 refers to women who “exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature”, but that can’t be referring to lesbians, because lesbians are born gay therefore are not exchanging anything.
Similarly, in verse 27 Paul refers to men who “gave up natural relations with women” which also can’t be referring to gay men, because we are born gay so are not giving anything up by not having relations with women, since we were never inclined to that in the first place. For both gay men and gay women, being gay is natural, since we were born this way.
Therefore the actions described in these two particular verses, are not referring to being gay, but rather suggest the choice of pursuing a hedonistic form of behaviour (the practice of seeking maximum pleasure).
Being gay is not a decision or a choice, so the use of the words ‘exchanged’ and ‘gave up’ indicate a decision on the subjects’ part to act contrary to the nature they were born with; to make a choice to desire this behaviour for pure pleasure for themselves, instead of a having a desire to love and please God.
Paul writes of this mindset later in Romans: “For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.” Romans 8:5-6
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These two verses are similar in nature, listing groups of people who are considered unrighteous, sinners or lawbreakers. These lists are describing things that people do, i.e. sinful activities in which they participate.
The ESV translators of the Bible use the phrase “men who practice homosexuality”, but other English versions vary considerably in their translations.
The Greek word used in both of these verses is ἀρσενοκοίτης arsenokoitēs; meaning a sodomite: — abuser of (that defile) self with mankind.
So it is reasonable to conclude this phrase in both of these verses is referring to men who participate in sodomy, since this would be consistent with the other Bible references examined here.
So it is a reference to men undertaking an action rather than simply having a romantic or sexual attraction, and therefore has nothing to do with being gay, which is neither an action nor an activity.
Hide infoThis website is mainly about providing information, it is not about telling people what to do or not do.
But it is important to remember that sexual activity is a thing of this world. So it’s wise to “set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” Colossians 3:2 “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Matthew 6:21
What a person thinks, says or does is between that person and God, however one of the many reasons he gave us his Word, the Bible, is to communicate how he wants people to live. Read it for yourself and may the Holy Spirit guide your understanding.
The prohibition against sodomy in the Bible does not mean gay Christians must be celibate or abstain from all forms of sexual activity.
Oral sex:
The Bible doesn’t mention oral sex at all. Some definitions in the world today suggest oral sex is penetrative in nature, so is the same as sexual intercourse. This doesn’t really make sense: is putting an eating utensil, or a finger or thumb, in your mouth regarded as penetration? No, it isn’t.
Using the mouth or tongue for sexual stimulation is clearly not the same as a penis entering a vagina or anus. The mouth is exposed to the world and used for many purposes, but those other orifices are treated with modesty and privacy, therefore their nature is entirely different.
However, as with any uncertainty, this has to be a matter for a person’s own conscience, guided by the Holy Spirit.
Masturbation:
There is no prohibition against masturbation in the Bible. Masturbation is acceptable, healthy and normal. However, guarding one’s thoughts during this activity is always wise.
There is only one direct reference in the entire Bible to masturbation:
Leviticus 15:16 makes it plain that God acknowledges that a male has emissions of semen not associated with sexual intercourse with a woman (since that is mentioned separately two verses later, in verse 18). So verse 16 can only refer to the results of male masturbation, and nocturnal emissions (wet dreams). Both are completely acceptable and not considered sinful.
Under the Old Testament Law, after an emission of semen a male would be regarded as ritually or ceremonially ‘unclean’ but that does not mean sinful or a result of sin.
Some misguided authors refer to the actions of Onan in Genesis 38:8-10 as prohibiting masturbation. But those verses have nothing to do with masturbation. Firstly Onan wasn’t masturbating and secondly, the issue wasn’t that his semen was spilled on the ground, it was what his particular semen contained, i.e. his DNA, that mattered.
So this is a completely different issue regarding Onan’s refusal to obey the Old Testament law requiring him to perpetuate his family line.
Finally, for completeness, it should be mentioned that some people are of the opinion that Jonathan, the son of King Saul, mentioned numerous times in the books of 1 and 2 Samuel, may be gay.
This is based on verses like 1 Samuel 18:1-3, 1 Samuel 19:1, 1 Samuel 20:30 and especially 2 Samuel 1:26. This conclusion is difficult to justify based on the scripture alone. It seems more likely these verses are simply describing a very close and loving friendship, perhaps with some hero worship of David on Jonathan’s part. But as always, read the scriptures for yourselves and draw your own conclusions.

Life
Gay or otherwise, God loves all people so much that he gave His only Son Jesus for us all, as the perfect and only way from death to life. That life starts now, while we are still in this world, for everyone who believes in him.
Jesus said: “Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.” John 5:24
“And this is the testimony, that God gave us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.” 1 John 5:11-12
Jesus said: “And this is eternal life, that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” John 17:3
Regardless of sexual orientation, being a Christian is a life long, and sometimes difficult, journey. It’s not only an instantaneous decision to believe, it’s also a continuous process of adapting to the influence of the love of God the Father, Jesus Christ his Son, and the Holy Spirit, in our lives.
While we live in this world, Jesus encourages us with these words: “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23
“They have all turned aside; together they have become corrupt; there is none who does good, not even one.” Psalms 14:3
“All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the LORD has laid on [Jesus] the iniquity of us all.” Isaiah 53:6
Hide info“For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more.” Hebrews 8:12
“For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 6:23
“You, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.” Psalms 86:15
“As a father shows compassion to his children, so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him. For he knows how we are formed; he remembers that we are dust.” Psalms 103:13-14
Hide info“If anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.” 1 John 2:1b
“Consequently, he is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them.” Hebrews 7:25
“For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all.” 1 Timothy 2:5-6a
“For we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is indeed the Savior of the world.”” John 4:42b
“And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world.” 1 John 4:14
Hide info“God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8
“For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Mark 10:45
“By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us.” 1 John 3:16a
“We know that Christ, being raised from the dead, will never die again; death no longer has dominion over him.” Romans 6:9
The apostle Paul wrote, “For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve.” 1 Corinthians 15:3-5
Hide info“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death.” Romans 8:1-2
“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” John 3:17
“In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace.” Ephesians 1:7
“The LORD redeems the life of his servants; none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned.” Psalms 34:22
Hide info“In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him.” 1 John 4:9
“God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ.” Ephesians 2:4-5a
“Jesus said to her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live.’” John 11:25
Jesus said: “Because I live, you also will live.” John 14:19b
“Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’” John 14:6
Hide info“The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end.” Lamentations 3:22
“For the LORD is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.” Psalms 100:5
“Oh give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; for his steadfast love endures forever!” 1 Chronicles 16:34
“For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him.” Psalms 103:11
“For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:38-39
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Purpose
The purpose of this website is to prove the truth, with evidence based on the authority of God’s Word, that being gay is in no way contrary to the Christian faith, the Bible or the teaching of Jesus Christ; and to share that information with the world.
Motivation
Generally, my motivation for creating this website is to provide information that helps all people. Specifically, I hope it helps anyone experiencing difficulty reconciling their faith and their sexual orientation, especially young people and those new to the faith; that the information in this website might help save them from falling away, from despair, and especially from thoughts of suicide. I also hope this website might serve the families and friends of gay Christians; to encourage their understanding, acceptance and support.
Personal
I’m gay, but I didn’t choose to be gay, I was created this way. I’m happy and comfortable being gay and I would not change that now, even if I could. But in my younger years, as a Christian when I first realised I was gay, if I had a choice, I would not have chosen to be gay because of the loneliness experienced at various times and the lack of acceptance that sadly is still prevalent in religious and secular society. But when I was 26, I finally came to the knowledge and understanding that God truly accepts me and loves me as a Christian who is gay. That’s also when I finally came out.
I’m convinced that my being created gay is God’s will, for his glory and for his good purposes (one of which is this website), and I’m completely OK with that. May God be glorified through me and this website, and his will be done! I sincerely hope this website bears fruit in helping to lead many to eternal life through Jesus Christ.
Also, please know, that while some sections above refer specifically to gay males, usually because that is the subject of the scripture under discussion, it is not my intention to ignore others in the LGBT+ community. I’m simply writing about what I know and understand from personal experience. I truly hope this website is helpful to everyone.
Other than the Bible references I’ve included as evidence to support my reasoning, the content above is solely my thoughts and opinions as a gay Christian who has lived in this world for many years. Like most Christians, I struggle with society’s acceptance and sin and the difficulties of life in this world, but I also know the joy and peace in believing, and I am absolutely certain, without any doubt, that God loves me and fully accepts me.
– Tim Durbidge, site author and gay Christian.
“Be exalted, O God, above the heavens! Let your glory be over all the earth!” Psalms 57:5
May this website be a blessing to the world!
Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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